What impulses I want to give?
Awareness because of desires The dream gives an advice that the dreamer should think of his sexual needs and his desire for excitement, you have to use your awareness. To dream of an affair, this allows you to admit safely and surely such feelings. Maybe you have the urge to do something cheeky or something what is associated with emotional risks for you.
Unacceptable emotional fulfillment For the dreamer this may look an active way of emotional satisfaction, which is unacceptable for him in the waking state.
The dreamer is looking for male/female differences, give / receive, or to integrate good/evil.